A Letter to My Former Self

 A letter to my former at-home mom self:

Dear new at-home mom,

There is so much I could tell you but will keep the list short.

💗 First I want to mention that you won't regret being there for your children through each stage of their lives.

💗 God will provide the finances and, if you're fortunate, one day you'll not worry so much about money.

💗 Some friendships you'll develop during your children's preschool and early school days will be very meaningful, but for some reason, some friends you thought you'd have for life will abandon you later.  Be a good friend and enjoy each stage while it's there.

💗 You will never lose the craving to do more with your life, but you might be happier if you try to be content. You might be more content if you'd quit looking at classified job ads.  

💗 You'll need to encourage yourself. You are doing an important job. What you do matters to God even if it doesn't seem to matter to anyone else. 

💗 Points of view of other moms and dads will be hard to handle.  Don't expect everyone to be just like you or to understand you.

💗 If you're an introvert, you may find yourself flung into uncomfortable situations. Motherhood is tough work. We do it for our children's sakes and for our heart.

💗 Loneliness behind four walls isn't just your problem.  It is a condition all at-home moms face at times.  Reach out to others.  

💗 Hands-on mothering will almost be finished by the time your youngest child turns 10.  It's over very quickly.  You may feel a little lost and sad. But you may also feel a yearning to return to work.  

💗 Write, create art, garden, exercise and do the things you love. These are passions God has given you. Develop them when you have time and money to do so. 

💗 You will evolve and grow. Try not to fear the future. Just be yourself without comparing your life to that of others. 

In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your path straight.